Sixteen-year-old Malik completes his work but refuses to participate in class discussions. When called on, he shrugs and says, “Whatever.” Peers begin to notice and disengage as well.
The teacher interprets this as defiance and lack of respect.
How will you support the teacher in moving from consequences to connections?
Prompts to support discussion
1. What is the skill gap?
Verbal risk-taking?
Self-advocacy?
Emotional vulnerability?
Perspective-taking?
Cognitive flexibility?
2. What brain systems are involved?
Heightened limbic sensitivity to social evaluation?
Prefrontal cortex still maturing?
Threat response to perceived embarrassment?
Reward system tied to peer perception?
3. What does co-regulation look like here?
4. How would you address curricular content through executive function skills?